CHHRC member Amanda Powell shares her story about getting back into shape (and back into life) after having her first baby . . . please follow Amanda on her amazing journey!
Everyone tells you that having a baby changes your life.
In the back of your head, for 10 long months while you carry them inside of
you, you think, "yeah yeah..." And then you finally get to meet that
precious little face and kiss every single finger and every single teeny tiny
toe and you finally get it, this really does change everything. And while you
love spending every waking minute with this precious little gift, what everyone
did not tell you is that this changes EVERYTHING!
No more late nights out and
sleeping in, no more sporadic movie dates with your husband, no more quick CVS
runs to grab mascara, because all of these "normal" activities
involve bringing a bottle, extra diapers, baby toys, a pacifier, a stroller,
and of course, the baby.
Well, after three amazing months of maternity leave, I
am back and I am ready to prove that while having a baby changes everything,
this is my time to start changing the things I actually want to change. In
order for me to be a good wife and a good mom, first and foremost, I need to
take care of myself. Not a single day went by, while I was on maternity leave,
that I didn't shower or put on some form of eye makeup. If I can make time to
pretty myself up, then I certainty can make changes to my schedule to make time
for my health. And lets face it ladies, speaking of changes, our bodies take
one heck of a change during pregnancy. What was once that "healthy
glow", seemed to quickly change into stretchmarks. And lying on the couch
holding your baby, catching up on Real Housewives re-runs does not help the
situation at all, trust me! What DOES work is making changes in your routine
and setting priorities. I am a full time working mom, trust me, I am all about
prioritizing. I right now, health and wellness needs to be on my list.
So today, my fitness journey has officially begun. Even
on the way to the gym, I was thinking oh goodness, am I really ready for this?
I can just turn around, go back home, and watch tv...oh look, there's a
McDonalds! But no, I drove straight to the club, with all those bottles, and
extra diapers, and baby toys, and pacifiers, and the stroller, and my son
Paddy, and I marched right in and knew this was the right decision. Of course
the sauna room and coffee bar looked enticing, but when the club director tells
you that you are just in time for the 10:30 Group Active class with Stacy, you
really don't have much of a choice but to take Group Active with Stacy. And
when Group Active Instructor Stacy puts you smack dab front and center of the
class, you know this means business.
Now, I by no means have any type of
coordination when it comes to fitness classes, so I immediately apologized in
advance to the two woman behind me, but they just smiled, and to me, their
smiles said "girl, you got this." The first 15 minutes went by with a
breeze. Sure, graceful Stacy was punching, kicking, and jumping to the beat,
and I'm sure I looked like an ape throwing my own poop in a cage, but I found
my own sort of rhythm.
But it was after those 15 minutes that my body just
started screaming "what are you doing to me!!??" It was as if my
inner self felt like she was getting the tar beat out of her and wanted
nothing to do with the situation. My legs burned. My armed killed. My stomach
was nauseous. I needed water..... Quick, run out and grab water and never ever
go back in that torture chamber. So I ran out and grabbed water. And I watched
the class continue for 4 minutes, for 5 minutes, for 6 minutes. And that's when
it really hit me. This change is not going to be easy. This change is going to
take a lot of commitment and dedication. And as my husband says, you can't
always be pretty, you have to sweat a little. So I matched my pretty, not so little,
behind right back into class and finished the last 30 minutes. And boy did I
sweat...
Or do I mean swear!? My legs still burned, and my arms
still killed, and I still felt a little nauseous, but I finished the class, and
it felt SO amazing! I had to change my mindset into believing that I could do
this, and that I can continue to do this! This change is a journey, and I'm all
in. And the way I see it, any excuse to buy more stretchy tights from Athleta is a good enough excuse for me ... because unlike my husband, I think pretty
and sweaty can make a fabulous combination!
Proud of you! Keep up the excellent work!
ReplyDeleteAmazing! You look fab! Keep it up! Xo
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